(originally published by Dr Laura Ciel on nineqco.com)
“It feels like it’s us against them,” she said as she kept her eyes to the floor. He added tentatively, “The fighting is really getting old. I don’t know how much longer we can keep doing this.” You can feel the tension in their words. The group is quiet, but there is much being spoken. This isn’t a new experience. In fact, it’s quite common when organizations have a disconnect between their vision and mission and their people.
These tensions in the group dynamic can live for years just under the surface, quietly waiting until a change occurs that pushes the tension level to a point that it can no longer be ignored. Mergers, acquisitions, exponential growth or a change in leadership are all possible changes that can highlight the dysfunction in an organization.
Why? Because many leaders do not make a healthy culture a priority. The reasons for that are varied and not critical to this paper, but if you are part of a leadership team I urge you to ask yourself this question. It’s not the only question I would ask you if I was assessing your culture, but it is certainly one of them and it will get you thinking about some things you may have been putting off:
“What do we do each day to align with our company’s vision and mission and how do we engage our entire team to do the same?”
Notice I didn’t ask you what kind of snacks you have in the lounge area or what fun activities your team engages in to stay connected. These are important, but not sufficient if you truly want to create a healthy organization. And if you, like many leaders, think culture isn’t important just start paying attention to the research. There is increasing evidence that positive work cultures lead to greater performance on many levels. (HBR)
Research shows that “culture can be a powerful and enduring source of competitive advantage” (HBR) with significant positive changes in the sense of an organization living it’s values, customer satisfaction and significantly increased revenue per employee. Interestingly, although more than 90 percent of executives in a longitudinal study (Duke) said culture is important at their firms, very few (15 percent) said their own corporate culture is exactly where it needs to be. This study also found that of the CEOs and CFOs around the globe who were part of the study, almost everyone (92 percent) said they believe attention and improvement of their firm's corporate culture would improve the value of the company.
What are the consequences of leaving the culture to accident? Lost revenue in many forms: top talent acquisition and retention, poor team engagement and productivity, health-related costs, turnover, and accidents among other consequences. (Gallup)
When the nineQteam is assessing culture in a dysfunctional company, we often see a lack of clarity around how team members live the organization's values or inconsistent modeling of behaviors that reflect these values. The overwhelm and exhaustion are heard in the voices of every team member when there is lack of clarity around the “why” and confusion about performance targets. Distrust, frustration, anger and passive aggressive actions build momentum as an organization begins to spin out of control. Ideally an organization proactively and intentionally sets up the foundation for a thriving culture, but often it is when these unhealthy behaviors and breakdowns occur at a threshold level that leaders feel compelled to take action.
This is a costly mistake, but understandable. Often, there is such a focus on the next targets that it feels like the “cost” is too great to take time to make sure the culture is healthy. Leaders who are proactive in setting up their culture have a sense of the importance and either hire someone to help them or have had experience in prior positions on what works and doesn’t. They intentionally take steps needed to support their entire team in being healthy, engaged, creative, inclusive and excited about going to work.
But what if your organization hasn’t done this yet? It isn’t always clear what steps need to be taken in order to create a thriving culture and often the negative momentum is great enough that an outside team is needed to help regain balance and co-create a healthier foundation. You can start with answering the question from the beginning of this paper ““What do we do each day to align with our company’s vision and mission and how do we engage our entire team to do the same?” If you don’t have an answer, here are a few tips to get you moving in the right direction:
Picture yourself in a variety of roles in your company and walk in that employee’s shoes (in your imagination or physically by their side). What feels good? What needs to change to feel better?
Get clear on how your vision, mission and values are embodied in day to day work. What do you do every day that aligns and honors those aspects of your organization?
Imagine the best company culture for your entire organization, then look at the areas that have the greatest discrepancy between “imagined best” and “current state.” Pick one to start with and begin by closing that gap, before moving to the next one.
**IMPORTANT: The longer the culture has been operating sub-optimally, the less likely it is to respond immediately to your actions. Don’t give up. Enlist the help of your leadership team and keep getting clear on what the best possible outcome would be.
Clarifying and embodying a thriving culture would ideally begin at the beginning of the company’s creation. Since this isn’t yet the norm, you may be experiencing some level of dysfunction. That’s ok.
You can start to shift that dysfunction into a healthier state by making it a priority and taking action today.
For leaders who care about their people and the world we all live in, creating a thriving culture is imperative. The rewards will benefit everyone as the organization strives for its highest potential; productivity, happiness, employee engagement, customer satisfaction and of course, positive financial performance
(This post originally posted by me as a Mindful Step for our community at Life Advance International LLC with great response and I wanted to share it with you here)
You may have read that as "Give somebody some love" and yes, do that too. But, I'm talking about something a little different so keep reading.
If you're like me, sometimes our bodies just don't seem to be working the way they used to. I've had my moments in the past where I hated what my body was doing (or not doing) and I was so frustrated that I couldn't get it to listen to me. I was pretty demanding at times. Ever feel that way?
Ever feel like no matter what you do, your body has a mind of it's own? Ever feel not only sad and disappointed by the vehicle your soul is moving around in, but even pissed off at times?
If you are in that angry, frustrated state this Mindful Step will work wonders for you this week.
Even if you are getting along great with your body right now, you'll notice the positive impact of taking this step.
Your Mindful Step for this week:
Give your body some love!
Ever notice how hard you can be on your body? I remember when I was pregnant with my first baby and I was thinking "What the hell is going on here?" and I was upset that I couldn't do some of the things I was used to doing. I was pretty hard on my body, until it registered that I was making a baby inside of me!:-)
So... maybe you had a few words already with your body this morning. I bet they were not the most kind words. How critical and judgmental are you usually when you think about, look at or talk about your body? Pay attention this week and give your body some love every time you start to say something mean.
It will not only make you feel better and your body feel better, but it will also improve everything around you. Stop fighting with your body. It's a gift. Without it, you pretty much would be a puddle on the ground. And, how much fun would that be?
At a loss for how to love your body? Think about how compassionate, loving and patient you would be with a small child... or even your pet. For more inspiration, try the following:
· Say out loud what you are grateful for in regard to your body
· Thank your body for all it does to get you through your day
· Gift your body with a massage
· Gift your body with a bath or warm shower
· Ask your body what it needs (ok, sounds a little woo woo, but why not try it and see if you get a response)
· Drink water so your body feels hydrated and relaxed
· Sleep, rest or do yoga or anything else that allows your body to relax
This is only a short list. There are so many other ways to love your body and I would love to hear them. Share in the comments below!
Have a wonderful week!
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Sometimes we get so overwhelmed with doing that we forget to just "be." Why does this matter? It can make all the difference between feeling good and feeling terrible. Before taking care of everything that need to get done, get yourself "set up" to take action from a place that feels good!
Your Mindful Step for this week
1.Choose one quality you want more of in your life right now (joy? love? peace? fun? etc...).
2. Write it down and post it somewhere you will see in your morning routine AND/OR write it in your smart phone to pop up each morning when you wake up as a reminder.
3. Each morning this week, ask yourself "How can I bring a little bit more of this quality into my life today?"
Okay... I guess there are three steps in your Mindful Step this week, but setting up the reminder is a way to ensure you are set up to bring more of that good feeling quality into your life each day this week.
In your free ebook Rock Solid From the Bedroom to the Boardroom we talk about the importance of setting up your emotional integrity each day. Today's Mindful Step might just end up being part of your unique Integrity Setup.
As always... our goal is to provide you a simple step to practice each week that will help you bring a little more joy, love, hope, peace and fun into your life!
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